Habit #5 Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood "All too often I find myself trying to lead a conversation. The problem with that is I rarely give other people enough time to speak fro themselves. I also tend to find myself complaining about my own problems or trying to solve other people's problems without listening to what's really going on. i feel like there are many times where I need to just step back and let them speak. because I can never really truly help them if I don't truly understand the situation. That goes for a number of things, track included." - Ian Heit
"Before one can truly walk in another's shoes, they must first remove their own."